Tuesday, 4 August 2015

What is Funeral Service Pre-Planning?

Funeral service pre-planning is a to plan the future funeral service. It can be the plan for yourself or for your love one. You can decide everything you want before the time comes and when the time is come, all the funeral arrangement will be arranged as you request. So that your family member know what you really want and they can concentrate on others.

No one likes to think about death, let alone plan for it. In many families, discussing one’s mortality is an extremely uncomfortable topic. But it is a topic that should be discussed and planned for well in advance of your death.
It’s easy to say, “Don’t make a fuss. I don’t want a ceremony. Just bury me and be done with it.” But it is important to realize that the ritual of a funeral and/or memorial service is not for the deceased but for the living. It is a time when friends and family can gather together to grieve openly and to provide support for one another.
By pre-planning your funeral, you relieve your family of having to make important financial decisions during a period of great stress and grief a time when people aren’t thinking very clearly and may not know what to do because you never made your wishes known.


How Important to have a Pre-Plan Funeral Service.

I have couple of story to share and is a real life story. I'm not making it on my own



Story 1:
One of my schoolmate father passes away when we are 17 years old. My schoolmate grow up without his mother, just him, his brother(1 year older) & his father. When it happen, my schoolmate doesn't know what to do at all since he & his brother is still young to handle this kind of situation. Moreover, all his relatives are not in KL. My schoolmate is out off mind, just keep blaming his self for not staying with his father for the last time. His brother doesn't know what to do and just keep inform all the relatives & friend. 
What happening is.... 
I get the call on 6.00PM that day and i rush there after finish my part-time job. When i reach my schoolmate there was around 11.00pm and what i so surprise that my schoolmate haven't done  anything about the funeral. I so surprise and ask what have you done in this few hours? He reply, i only contact the relatives & friend and don't know what else to do. 
After a while I talk with my schoolmate, One of his brother friend arrive and he notice the same thing I do and said 'what are you both doing, most important now is your father funeral ceremony. Don't be just sit here & do nothing'. Everyone, there was agreed with him and he start calling the funeral company to help. It was so luckily to have this friend here. We all know is a very sad day but what have to be done, must be done. 
What we learn from this story:
A lot of young generation have no experience for the funeral. If not from his brother friend helps, we all don't know what to do too. If my schoolmate father had a pre-planning, his son will know what to do and have our Funeral Consultant (FC) to help him. 


Story 2:
This happen to my friend also my colleuge in Nirvana and is the most piss off and sadness story
His  parent pass away when he was very young (14 years old). What so pity is no relatives was offered any help to him. What he can do is, find a casket retailer & ask for services & pricing. The shop charges him for RM8000 that time. My friend has no money to paid it at all. So the shop owner asks him to do as he plans and invite as many guests as you can to gather all the money given. If can't cover the cost the shop owner offers installment for the balance. In the end, my friend funeral can cover up by the money from guest given. After all been done, his relative complain that the funeral service not been done in the proper way. This is most making me mad about. When happening you no help, after done only you sound out this no good that no good but you do not realize that your nephew no money to pay for the proper funeral.
What we learn from this story:
If his parent pre-planning with installment plan,  his son won't be suffer like that and can have a proper funeral ceremony.

Story 3:
This happen to a lot of the family that i handle
After I join this company, I have an opportunity to serve instant case. What I seen in the instant case that some of the family arguing when the time come. Due to different opinion for the funeral service they start arguing between relatives or among brothers sisters. Some of them want to have a proper funeral, some of them just want a cheap funeral, some of them want some luxury funeral and some of them don't want to get involve at all. So the situation getting worst & worst every time I handle this kind of situation. After what we sharing now, this kind of situation getting lesser. A lot of my customer having a pre-needs package with them so a lot of misunderstandings  will be avoided. 

What we learn here:
If you have a pre-planning a lot of bad things you can avoid to happens. When the time really come, our company will do the arrangement as you plan.


Conclusion:
Here i just share some real experience to show how important to pre-plan your funeral service. If you having a same experience before, you should know what to do next.

Next i will write about

"What is the benefit to have a Pre-Planing Funeral Service"


If you interested to have a pre-planning funeral service 
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